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use fake emotions to replace real emotions, so the East Germans suffer from personality schizophrenia. Psychologically, they can not break through the “anal period” and enter the normal “genital period”. In the face of environmental pollution, material shortage, spiritual oppression and even limited space, we muddle along, but as long as East German athletes continue to win gold medals in the Olympic Games, people will feel happy from the bottom of their hearts.

the Berlin wall collapsed

on November 9, 1989, the Berlin Wall opened, which meant that the people of East Germany finally broke free from the shackles of the “concentration camp”.

however, behind the carnival, few people realize that East Germany did not change spontaneously. Without the intervention of external forces, the prison will remain stable. In other words, everything is sent by others, not won spontaneously. So why don’t East Germans take the initiative to grasp their own destiny?

for a considerable period of time, the transformation of East Germany was regarded as a model: little cost, social stability and no violence. However, mats, a psychologist and author of “emotional blockage”, believes that the reality is far from as simple as imagined. Although most East Germans have physically entered an open society, their hearts are still closed. Too many people use alcohol to relieve their worries, too many people have mental breakdown, sexual abuse, drugs, nationalism… Because they can’t find the meaning of survival, many people begin to miss the past and beautify the former prison into a paradise.

in mats’s view, the transformation of East Germany is just a “uprising of neuroses”. Behind the sick man’s governance, everyone is sick. Unknowingly, they have long been shaped by autocratic culture and system, and have long lost their ability to become normal people.

in a society lacking artificial psychology

as we all know, normal people are free, they can fully express their emotions and satisfy their normal desires. However, this is a luxury in East Germany, which is committed to “shaping new people” by distorting nature, which is consistent and systematic.

since the baby is about to be born, expectant mothers all over the world can choose whether to give birth at home or in hospital, and can choose medical services according to their preferences. But East Germany is different. In the name of care, they have to enter the designated hospital and be “checked” by experts like a machine. As soon as the child is born, they are immediately taken away, and the mother and child can be reunited three days later. So fear took root in the young heart.

around the age of 3, children were forced into kindergartens. They cried and cried, but adults felt that this “exercise” was conducive to the “collective life” in the future. In kindergartens, children are forced to learn to eat, defecate, personal hygiene and sleep. Instinct has become a technology, and human nature has been separated. After school, endless examinations and training have completely destroyed children’s interest in learning.

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in family education, parents rarely communicate with their children and only say “no noise”, “no littering”, etc. of course, they love their children, but they have not received love education, and their life experience is “frustration makes people mature”.

from the fertilized egg to the octogenarian, from society to family, in East Germany, no heresy is allowed, even stuttering, left-handed, wearing glasses, wetting the bed, not to mention believers, pacifists and people with different views. Once they emerge, they will first be ridiculed and hostile by the people around them. All normal psychological supplies are regulated, and even sexual desire, sense of humor and aesthetics do not completely belong to themselves.

love can only be obtained through hard work. The result of long-term suppression of

is that everyone suffers from emotional deficiency: inferiority, insecurity, suspicion, disappointment and nothingness. Because they deviated from their nature, the East Germans felt helpless and longed for dependence and authority.

when they were children, they had to learn to please adults. Only obedience, good grades and praise from teachers can get the love of parents. In short, the premise of obtaining love is to pay first, and only after “unconditional dedication” can they be free from violence, scolding and injury, which has become the basic training for them to integrate into society in the future.

this explains why so many East German soldiers shoot evil bullets at people crossing the Berlin Wall, why East Germany has so many secret police (it is estimated that at most 2 million people, one in every 6.5 East German citizens works for the secret police), who actively betray their friends and openly commit evil, Because they can’t resist their inner fear and hope to gain a sense of security.

as for ordinary people who have no chance to join the evil game, they comfort their inferiority in another way. They work hard at the back door to relieve their sense of depression and steal small things at home. The shop attendant became a master quarrel. In view of the serious scarcity of goods, customers had to swallow their anger, but they would turn their face and spread their anger on others.

East Germany has successfully created a society that hurts each other, but the trouble is that once people are alienated, they can only feel comfortable in the alienated environment and refuse any change.

compensation mechanism distorts the social

when people lack emotion, they will look for compensation, so they have a great desire for power, achievement and symbols.

people will eat when hungry and cry when in pain, but this normal process is always interrupted, which will accumulate a lot of emotions. Once out of control, the consequences are unpredictable. Therefore, a reasonable release channel must be found.

in East Germany, there are too many “hard-working people”“Workaholics and strong women have no personal life. They don’t hesitate to give up their family, family and health for the sake of “career”. They use “great love” to cover up the fact of no love and live like another person. When the “cause” makes them oppress, abuse, snitch and lie, they will bear it without hesitation. They are so numb to life, but who wants to doubt the leadership, history and preaching, they are immediately angry and don’t hesitate to do the most cruel things.

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use fake emotions to replace real emotions, so the East Germans suffer from personality schizophrenia. Psychologically, they can’t break through the “anal period” and enter the normal “genital period”. In the face of environmental pollution, material shortage, spiritual oppression and even limited space, we muddle along, but as long as East German athletes continue to win gold medals in the Olympic Games, people will feel happy from the bottom of their hearts.

the result of compensation is spoiled, just like a child whose hands are frozen, but blames his mother: it’s all your fault! Why don’t you give me gloves?

everyone feels that others are at fault and secretly rejoices in “living better than you”. As a result, the society has declined unprecedentedly and has become a society that “wastes vitality pointlessly, inefficiently and compulsively”.

why doesn’t anyone break the iron house

cattle and horses don’t know their hard work, pigs don’t know their dirty, but people are different, they can reflect on their environment and life. But it is strange that East German society has not taken the initiative to change. Why has no one shaken this iron house? Did they really see the problem?

on the contrary, everyone feels there is a problem. In private, everyone is complaining, but in the context of emotional defects, everyone is a compensatory dummy, and they can’t undertake the mission of change.

take onak as an example. He has great power and could have taken the initiative to change, but his fear is very strong. In his biography, he talked about his extremely deficient childhood. In order to heal the scars, he created a flawless and untrue “great mother”, which is actually the product of excessive compensation. In the shadow of “great mother”, onak’s marriage is unfortunate, because no woman can be equally “perfect”. Isn’t it the greatest satisfaction for people who used to be deficient? Isn’t it the greatest relief for people who have been afraid to intimidate others? Ceausescu knew this best, so he went to the orphanage to recruit security personnel.

in addition, ambitious people indulge in dedication and prefer to regard illusory love as real; The followers are used to being tortured and even find pleasure from it; The opposition’s apparent opposition is actually to transfer the resentment against their parents to the system, so there is only emotion and no rationality; Daydreamers use the way of bearing the pain of the public to compensate for their inner sense of loss…

in short, they are all eggs laid in an iron house and cannot fundamentally oppose it.

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. On the surface, German reunification is calm and poetic. Young people in East Germany rushed over the Berlin wall to talk to the young people in West Germany, but the West Germans would not understand that after the sober wake, the East Germans would be ashamed of their own faults.

this shame makes them no longer think, but immerse themselves in making money, and no longer review the past, thinking that everything has nothing to do with themselves. With the unification of the two Germany, the compensation mechanism of the East German people disappeared, and people fell into a vacuum. Instead, they felt empty, meaningless and confused.

however, without a deep review of the past, it is doomed to make a comeback. East Germans should not forget that it was the humiliation of failure after failure that made the Germans fall into madness, so they chose a more crazy person to lead them. What kind of people will have what kind of system, so Germany fell into deep suffering. What the East Germans should not forget is that the vast majority of people, including many intellectuals, have supported the Berlin Wall. They praise the prison because they already have a prison in their hearts. If they don’t tear it apart, what’s the significance of tearing down the Berlin Wall?

there is no doubt that “emotional blockage” is a unique and profound work. It tells us that from tradition to modernity and from closure to opening, it is not possible to succeed by changing the power order. It also needs to make more and more arduous efforts in human modernization. Otherwise, history will inevitably return to tide and suffering will come again.